Monday, February 1, 2010


Wewt. Man, has my passed couple of days been VERY eventful. I traveled all the way to Florida and laid on the beach for hours with nothing but peace and quiet.....HA! What i should say is that is what I would have RATHER been doing. Instead my physco ex decided to pop into my life once again. Zacharys dad and I are no longer together and haven't been since I was 8 months pregnant with Zachary. He is a controlling, possesive, mentally abusing...okay lets face it, I could go on all night. Lets just sum it up and say he is just...not a nice guy. Anyways, ever since Zach was born he has wanted to think that he shouldn't have to pay for and help me support our kid. And that he should still get all the benefits I do. And I'm sorry, but to me, that's not fair! I'm working my butt off all week long to raise this kid, while i am gettin $30 a month from him in child support. That $30 doesn't even put a dent into Zach's needs being met. So, once again, Justin thinks that if he ruins my life, he'll get to see Zach. [Did i mention he's not too smart either?] So this time, he decided he was gonna call my mom and tell her all these riduculous lies. He told her that I was pregnant again, that he was living with me, and all this stupid stuff. Number one, I'm 20 and living on my own. I dont have a problem telling my mother I'm pregnant. So i wouldn't have to lie about it. Number two, NEVER would I ever live with Justin. So somewhere in his little plan to ruin my life, he thought by pissing me off and getting my mom involved she was gonna let him see Zachary. HA! Lets see, last time I checked I was Zachary's mom, not my mom. So every decision comes down to me. So it's not to smart to piss me off.
MAN. I'm so glad Zachary got my brains. =]
So. That pretty much sums up my last couple of days. Oh the wonderful life i live. I'm just glad I have Zachary to make it all better. At least that A-hole gave me one good thing.


Helene said...

I saw on your mom's blog that you started your own blog so I thought I'd come over and say hello and welcome you to the blogosphere!!

The ex sounds like a real piece of work!!

sheila said...

Over from your mom's blog. Very pretty here! Welcome to bloggyland,lol.

I wish you the best for you and your baby. You'll get back on your feet! In the meantime, enjoy the little one, they grow so damned fast.

I wish you luck with your ex. Gosh, that whole ordeal would be very very frustrating to say the least!

eight helping hands said...

Hi Jessie!
Following you from your mom's blog!
Your mom and I go waaaaayyy back to high school. I knew her when she was young and hip! Well, she still is young and hip right?
You have a great mom and I'm glad to see that you are close to her.
I love the look of your blog. Very cute!
As far as your ex goes...he has no rights and he has no child!! Being a DNA donor does not mean your a parent! BIG difference!
Good luck with your blog! Zachary is a cutie.

Too Many Hats said...

I follow your mom's blog too, so I wanted to come and say hi! Good for you for not letting that idiot have any control of you or your son.

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